10. Location, Location, Location
Finding the right dating partner for you is all about where you look. If you love books, visit bookstores to strike up a conversation with someone. However, if you’re not much of a party goer, bars or clubs may not be the best place to find a partner.
9.Take the Initiative, but Don’t be Pushy
Women always appreciate a confident man, so as challenging as it may be, it’s important to take the initiative to ask a woman out for a date. It’s completely normal to be afraid of rejection- and rejections will happen- but this is just a part of dating. If a woman you’re interested in would like to go out but has been busy lately, she’ll let you know when she’s free so there’s no need for urgency. Be assertive, but not pushy.
8. Go to a Venue or Restaurant She Loves
Instead of simply selecting a place to go that you’ve always loved, ask your date what restaurants or venues are her favorite and take her there.
7. Actively Listen and Talk About Topics that Interest Her
Nobody enjoys being around someone who talks about themselves all the time. Listen carefully to what’s on your date’s mind instead of just discussing the things going on in your life.
6. Be a Gentlemen, Open Doors, Pay for Meals
Chivalry will never be dead and any man who says otherwise will likely not have much luck finding a long-term companion. Open doors for her, pay for meals or movie tickets, but don’t make it a big deal. These things should go without saying and should not require a great deal of conscious effort.
5. Avoid Bombarding Her with Text Messages or Phone Calls
Following the first date, avoid calling or texting her too often. Women are not attracted to any indications of desperation, so wait a few days before asking about another date. That is unless she calls you first!
4. Giving Gifts too Early into Dating may Send the Wrong Message
Although flowers on Valentine’s day is always nice, there’s a time and a place for everything. If you’ve only been dating a woman for a week or so, giving extravagant gifts may send the wrong message and turn her off.
3. Avoid Getting Attached too Early
2. Don’t Assume to Know How She Feels
1. Take Your Time, There’s No Hurry
Dating is the most exciting part of any burgeoning relationship. Enjoy it. There’s no rush.
By incorporating just a few pieces of this advice into your dating activities, you will likely have a much more fulfilling experience and find the companion you’ve always wanted.